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Continuing Abuse and Cyber Bullying


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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 11:57 am

Continuing Abuse and Cyber Bullying

I have asked Vale Xsayarsa to leave me alone because he always talks negative to me on various boards and in chat. in chat I can put him on ignore, but on the boards he keeps doing it. can I please get a Whill or a Councilor to get him to stop?

The Guild Rules being violated:

├óÔé¼┬óTo try to understand the other players whenever possible, realizing that my perspective is not necessarily correct.
├óÔé¼┬óTo respect other players and the Whills, even when we are inevitably in conflict.
├óÔé¼┬óTo try to reconcile my own wishes with those of other players.

Natural Laws violated:

Rule 2: Portion 1: There is to be no OOC bullying, name calling, or harassment of any type. Malicious discrimination based on race, gender, ethnic orgin, sexuality, religious beliefs, or political beliefs will not be tolerated. If you think something crosses the line, do not type it. This rule is enforced across all sections of the forum boards.

3. You are here to role play, not to troll topics. If you intend to insult someone or to instigate an argument, do not post. A degree of common courtesy and respect for your fellow players is expected.

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[quote="Wanderer":83am0iou][quote="Iniquitous":83am0iou]Dark Tide is planning on hitting Coruscant once we get our Time Lines together.[/quote:83am0iou]

[action:83am0iou]like[/action:83am0iou][/quote:83am0iou]

[quote="Vale Xsayarsa":83am0iou][quote="Iniquitous":83am0iou][quote="Vale Xsayarsa":83am0iou]You're not invited Wandy.[/quote:83am0iou]


Stop that.[/quote:83am0iou]

Or what?[/quote:83am0iou]

[quote="Iniquitous":83am0iou]Your posting permissions get removed. I was serious when I said no trolling earlier in this thread. That goes for everyone, Dark Tide or otherwise.[/quote:83am0iou]

[quote="Vale Xsayarsa":83am0iou]JUST TRY IT.[/quote:83am0iou]

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[quote="Vale Xsayarsa":83am0iou]Unfortunately...in all senses of the word...we have Wanderer who we hire out the Sithspit work to.

You'd have to talk to him, see if he's happy sharing the load with you.[/quote:83am0iou]

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here's where I asked you to stop and you didn't. I suppose this is MY fault as well

[quote="Wanderer":83am0iou]what's up my DT homies?[/quote:83am0iou]

[quote="Vale Xsayarsa":83am0iou]Get lost Wandy.[/quote:83am0iou]

[quote="Wanderer":83am0iou]leave me alone Vale, i'm asking you nicely to please stop[/quote:83am0iou]

[quote="Vale Xsayarsa":83am0iou]First thing I've said to you in a week mate.[/quote:83am0iou]

[quote="Wanderer":83am0iou]that's fine just please don't do it again[/quote:83am0iou]

keep in mind this one was the earliest of these post exchanges, i've been going in reverse order so obviously me asking him to stop has solved nothing

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I won't post the whole thing but I wrote a post in the thread about Mandalorian unity and what did I get as a response? this:

[quote="Vale Xsayarsa":83am0iou]^ Gay ^[/quote:83am0iou]

this excludes all the stuff he has said in an argument in the mandalorian Assembly OOC forum and his one excuse for bugging me so much is this:


[quote="Vale Xsayarsa":83am0iou][color=#FF0000:83am0iou]If you give me Sithspit, I'll throw it right back - it's that simple. [u]You started all this when you starting crying everytime I posted a post with the letters W, A, N, D or Y in it.[/color:83am0iou][/quote:83am0iou]

so he admits he's been bothering me because I got upset when he wouldn't leave me alone in the first place. if you look in the argument in the Mandalorian OOC forums you will see him calling me various names and insulting me. and this is also excluding all the foul things he directs at other people. this behavior is unfitting to the Player's Guild and to the site and I am not asking for him to be removed from the site, or to be suspended, all I ask is that he not post towards me from now on and I will do the same.
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:08 pm

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Aaandd if we look at the Mandalorian OOC thread properly - you'll see there's been no name-calling or nasty insulting directly at you Wandy.

Grow up Wandy please. I'm sick and tired of having to check if everything I say on this site might offend you in whatever way you desire at that moment in time. I've said nothing majorly un-toward you Wandy, yet I keep finding I have to defend myself and my words.

That final sentence you've so completely turned into some form of confession from me, is far from a confession of any wrong-doing. It was a sarcastic attempt to show you how petty and completely encompassing you've been in your witch-hunt of me.

Throw me out of the players guild? I don't even think I'm a member of it....so I'd bump up your request a notch mate - try and get me permanently banned like it's painfully obvious you want.
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:10 pm

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wow, so in other words Vale is refusing to act civilly, and refusing to just "ignore" someone. I don't see how wanting this back and forth to end in an adult manner means I need to grow up.

and yes you are a member, it was on your profile. and if you weren't I would take this to the whills instead
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:15 pm

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Just file the IR Wandy, you've been gagging for a reason for a long time, it's so painfully obvious I'm surprised you even wasted your time coming here first.

Get me perma-banned. I dare you.
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:18 pm

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see what i mean? he won't see reason. he just keeps insulting and keeps treating me like Sithspit
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:22 pm

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What're you waiting for? All this continued 'insulting' I'm doing must be pushing you close to doing it. Go on Wandy, file the IR, make yourself seem important and big by doing it.
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:29 pm

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you obviously won't leave me alone
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:31 pm

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Do it then. I'm giving all the reasons you'd need - what's stopping you?

Stop posting inane Sithspit and just man-up and do it.
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 1:52 pm

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[quote="Wanderer":1p9zi0y0]you obviously won't leave me alone[/quote:1p9zi0y0]

Maybe if you ignore him, it will be easier for him to ignore you??
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 2:10 pm

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[quote="Cassus Fett":f26sd01q][quote="Wanderer":f26sd01q]you obviously won't leave me alone[/quote:f26sd01q]

Maybe if you ignore him, it will be easier for him to ignore you??[/quote:f26sd01q]

or he can just show me the respect another player deserves
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Post Sat Oct 08, 2011 2:14 pm

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Earn it.
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Post Mon Oct 10, 2011 1:19 am

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Ok since the bickering has quieted down lets try to act like adults now. I'll make this short and sweet.

Wandy some of what you are pointing out is a little misconstrued. Not saying you're lying but really, the last sentence you quoted was not an insult toward you but rather an mockery of your claims of being insulted. That being said you have, as it seems, continually tried to get Vale to leave you alone, but you could do your part in not acknowledging him. It's only fun for the bully when the victim acknowledges the treatment. My advice to you is to stop acknowledging him altogether, at least OOC unless you are doing some planning for IC interaction...which I doubt but still.

Vale. Leave him alone, please. He doesn't want to interact with you so will you please respect that? If you have a problem with him then that's fine, not everyone likes everyone. No one wants to perma-ban you, stop trying to get him to. Despite how much you think Wandy needs to grow up he obviously feels like he is being targeted by you, whether he is or not I can't say at the moment but if you keep this up you'll likely earn that perma-ban for bullying if there is actual ground to it.

The fact of the matter is that these little arguments don't really serve either case, talk it out like adults or report it and be done with it. Continuously arguing about it makes it look like you are both at fault. For future reference when you file a complaint, post your complaint, inform the other party, let them post their defense, and then drop it until someone responds.

So simply put, either settle your differences like adults or don't talk to each other, don't acknowledge each other, don't write with each other. In chat, on the boards, or otherwise, because you two obviously can't get along.

Post Mon Oct 10, 2011 2:42 am

Re: Continuing Abuse and Cyber Bullying

Adrien's got it there fellas.

You don't get along, plainly, and you each seem to annoy the crap out of the other.

For both your sakes, and the sanity of everyone else that has to listen to you or read your quoted posts back and forth in the Mando OOC board, hear me now.

Don't talk to each other. If you see something the other one wrote. DO NOT REPLY. NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WANT TO.

Otherwise this business will just keep going, and someone, or both of you if this keeps up, WILL get into trouble. The rest of the site has to watch and or read your exchanges. Some days it's funny. Mostly though, it's just getting old.
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Post Mon Oct 10, 2011 3:24 am

Re: Continuing Abuse and Cyber Bullying

[quote="Wanderer":234dtp29][b:234dtp29][u:234dtp29]I have asked Vale Xsayarsa to leave me alone because he always talks negative to me [/u:234dtp29][/b:234dtp29]on various boards and in chat. in chat I can put him on ignore, but on the boards he keeps doing it. can I please get a Whill or a Councilor to get him to stop? [/quote:234dtp29]

Enter the whining 4 year old.

In my professional opinion as a disgraced former GEC who was thrown out on corruption charges, I belive I can safely provide an unbiased and truthful opinion on the situation.

Vale: Total douchebag, seriously, not even in the funny way. Takes things to far, doesn't know when to stop and is sometimes... alot of times a bully at varying degress. I am thankful that I have never been selected and put on Vale Sithspit list.

Wandy: I like you Wandy but as Vale said, this argument feels... lacking to say the least. Seems like you are just looking for an excuse to nail the rodder. Granted you got it and I think alot of us are happy that he is not here to bother us, but I just read this and was unimpressed by your argument. However I guess what happened in chat proves your point? I don't know
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Post Mon Oct 10, 2011 3:33 am

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Locked, this topic no longer has any impact and whether you wish to give in your two cents or not this case is closed and has been dealt with by the Whills as for you Gabe, it would be wise to keep your snarky remarks to yourself mate.

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